why would a friend that talked to you everyday for a year start talking to you less and less to where it becomes only late at night and then becomes once every few weeks then it becomes to where it's a month since you've heard from them?
RoseRage16
1 year ago
Fantastic β€οΈ
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
dang i feel that π
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ it's just happened with a friend I've known 99% of my life and I'm so sad and mad and idk why they just stopped talking to me or what to do. I hear from his mom more than him now and am better friends with his mom now. it really hurts, and I'm not fully sure what to do lol
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ I only talked to them on one social media app but I have their # and Gmail but I'm too sad to try to talk to em through either of those bc ik they probably won't answer or will make up some dumb excuse
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
@The Witchπ yeah ive done that with a couple of people too, we just dirfted away. and too scared to try and talk to them so we just dont talk
maybe you should ask their mom? idk just some people drift away, my best freind we talked for 3 years and we dont exactly talk anymore
i talk to her other bestie more then her and i dont even like her all that much
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
@The Witchπ every time i do try to talk to her she kinda ignores me so i just dont talk to her better then getting ignored
then she'll be like are you mad at me π€·ββοΈ people are confusing
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ this is a really complicated friendship bc our family's are friends and we've been calling each others mom's our aunts our whole lives and then our parents started shipping us together and me and him started a little cult club thing together and then he got in a relationship with someone who thinks South America is one big country called Spanish. and then he stopped being my friend as much. we live 12hrs away from each other and last time I saw him 6yrs ago was really awkward -
The Witchπ
1 year ago
and we didn't talk for awhile afterwards and then our families got us talking again and he accidentally left some of his stuff here so now I'm just stuck with some of his stuff after he's not talking to me at all. he used to say that he really wanted to visit again and that we'd replace some of my bad memories from my mind with fun memories we'd make together.
The Witchπ
1 year ago
and our families don't know about any how close we were or that he stopped being my friend
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ and at the time he started to talk to me less he knew that I've recently lost a bunch of friendships and he promised he'd be there for me more often
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
@The Witchπ dang that is complicated... someone thought south America was one big country named Spanish? lol
they always have an excuse when you try to talk to them? well long distance friendship is hard bc you cant really talk to each other in person, have you tried ft each other?
maybe you should talk it out with him, or at least try
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ yeah his gf he lives with thinks that and would think America is called English. hid mom calls her homeschool. yeah almost always. we have once or twice but he works a lot. yeah its a really really complicated situation I'm not sure how I could reach him though bc I tried a few times on the platform we usually talk through but he didn't answer. I've been considering trying to have a serious convo for a few weeks if he'd answer. I'm just not sure how to start it/word it lol
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
@The Witchπ honestly i havent had a serious talk with anyone.. i should tho
maybe be like hey we need to talk or something sorry im not much help π
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ it's oki, it's more help than I got from anyone else lol.
β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘
1 year ago
@The Witchπ but im very good at listening lol
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ the past month where I haven't talked to him has been absolutely chaotic, and pretty much all of my friends have been busy so that's really ~fun~ lol
The Witchπ
1 year ago
@β‘ππππ-ββπΈββ‘ same, I've always been everyone's therapist-even my family's lol
The Witchπ
1 year ago