Randoperson
8 months ago
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When they finally did sit down with their parents it was as if they had told them something they already knew. Maybe they are just waiting for you to feel safe enough to tell them. Listen to your heart. I just read your comment about “locking you up” and if that’s the case maybe you need to be true to yourself first -you can’t spend your life living the way someone else wants you to- it is scary but at the end of the day we need to be honest -with others and most importantly ourselves♥️
Randoperson
8 months ago@Peyz33 aka Karen🍂🍂🍂🍁 It is true that most of the time parents are shockingly good ab it but the difference is that this is not a new thing to my parents, it's something that has been brought up and last year i was told by them that it is "of the devil" and "a trial of god" and that i need to push it down and be who god wants me to be. i really do hope you're right that they will be ok with it now that i am an adult this year and maybe they could be more open minded and i really appreciate your
Randoperson
8 months ago@Peyz33 aka Karen🍂🍂🍂🍁 honesty, it's nice to hear people telling me their honest opinion and solid advice. you are right, at the end of the day i can pretend to be something else. thank you <3
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months agoHmmm. So based on your reply I’m not so sure how much of a good idea it is without you first having a back up plan -just in case “of the devil and trial of god” is still their position. You should have a job, money saved and a plan in place. If they truly love you they will eventually come around -but from the sound of it they most likely find it hard to live with -which you need to be prepared first before you tell them. I’m so sorry you have to deal with bigotry and such hatred for something
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months agoOver which you have no control. At the end of the day - even if the day is long - you need to be true to YOU- because if you don’t you’ll never be free of the chains they will most likely try to put on you. I also suggest you find someone to talk to who’s waked this journey because you will need the support. I’ll keep you in my prayers ♥️
MS Fighter
8 months agoI agree with Karen, after reading your response about your parents. If your parents are convinced the devil is in you the problem is  theirs and not yours. you should definitely have a back up plan in place because someone with opinions as strong as theirs may not be willing to change. Please do not blame this on the church, though, because there are many churches that would be very welcoming to you, and you may actually find solace there. 
🦋Sandra 🦋
8 months agoNice and beautiful I like it ❤️🩵
Randoperson
8 months ago@Peyz33 aka Karen🍂🍂🍂🍁 @MS Fighter you're absolutely right and don't worry, i've had a plan for a while now, it's just really close to the time that i plan to come out so i'm starting to get really scared, that's all thank you guys. and it's ok, im sure there are millions who deal with similar things and things far worse. i actually have never met another person who has been through anything like this so i really don't know where i would go, but i do plan to save up for therapy after im sorted ou
Randoperson
8 months ago@MS Fighter don't worry, I would never blame a whole religion just for one person's mistakes. i will say that i have seen a lot of people of religion use their religion as an excuse to hurt or discriminate against ppl and that just makes me sad bc three are just giving their religion a bad rep and pushing good ppl away from it
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months agoDon’t be scared - be proud - it’s 2023 maybe back in the 1950’s and 60’s it was something that you needed to keep secret - but not now - and unfortunately some people will never be accepting of those who are different from themselves. When you do sit with them let them see your heart - tell them how you feel about them and then the truth of who you are - you can’t control how other people act but you can control how you react. Be proud be you ‼️
Randoperson
8 months ago@🦋Sandra 🦋 thank you🫶
Randoperson
8 months ago@Peyz33 aka Karen🍂🍂🍂🍁 omg i can't thank you enough. i'm low key crying from the amount of support i've been getting on here lol. and yes you are right, i can't let anything stop me from being me. i actually wrote out a 3 page script of things i wanna say to them haha. thank you so much, it really means so much❤️
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months agoI hope things work out better than you expect ☺️
Randoperson
8 months ago@Peyz33 aka Karen🍂🍂🍂🍁 bro😭 i can't thank you enough, you are such a good person <3
CHAR🙏🤍 ☮
8 months agoI myself am a very over protective parent especially with how crazy our world is becoming, however my children have been raised to speak openly and freely to me with everything and anything, I have always since they where at an age of understanding explained to each of them, no matter who they love be it opposite sex, same sex I will love them unconditionally no matter what, I have always raised them to be strong minded and think for themselves not to let others think for them.
🤍 to you sweetie
TinaW
8 months ago@Randoperson
I am happy that you are reaching out. Though, we do not know each other personally we are definitely a Community. I see your art & it speaks to what you have shared of your feelings. I am truly sorry you are going through such a tough time & feeling so scared. I am feeling your pain & would like to say, go to your Parents with your Truth. They Love you very much & Parents Love are Unconditional. Your fear maybe for nothing if you haven't spoken to your parents. Go to them
TinaW
8 months agowith your Truth. Just doing that will definitely take the fear you're feeling away. The outcome may be Surprising (I surely do Pray it will be) & no matter what becomes of it you'll know how to go from there. YOU'RE NOT ALONE. There are plenty people who care & can help. Reaching out is so important & I am happy you are doing that. I truly feel you will come out of this Victoriously & it will be with your Parents.
God Bless you & your family.
🦋Sandra 🦋
8 months ago@Randoperson Welcome ❤️
Randoperson
8 months ago@🏴CHAR🤍 thats good, you're a really good parent. you are so right, the world is scary and crazy and it's amazing that you can find the balance of protecting them and letting them live freely. people like you are what make the world better in small ways, thank you🤍
Randoperson
8 months ago@TinaW I really hope you are right about that. from previous conversations with them it's not likely but there is always a small chance. thank you so much, you're positivity is really encouraging. seriously, thank you 🫶
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months ago