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Hello my Recolor family! The last pic that I had posted got a lot of comments, and a few of yβall were wondering if I am ok. So I have finally sat down to tell yβall whatβs been going on.
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1 month agoA few days ago Iβve had to let go of a relationship that I was not expecting to lose, and iβve been trying to cope with myself after losing him. This βfriendβ was a lot of things. My crush, my guy best friend, favorite person, and the boy that Iβve been in love with for 8 months.(I also wrote 3 songs about him... yeah). We were never dating, but we both liked each other for a long time, and had talked about dating in the future
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1 month ago Out of the blue, He texted me 3 days ago, and told me that he realized that a real relationship was not going to work out for us, and that we should just be friends. Initially I was in shock, couldnβt hold back my tears, and anger and sadness were the 2 emotions that Iβve been feeling the most lately.
It has been 3 days now... my heart is still hurting, Iβm still sad & a lil angry, yet I still want him back, and Iβm still in love with him.
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1 month agoWe did have a ft conversation yesterday. We donβt hate each other, and have decided that we will still remain friends, bc we made a promise that we always will be. Iβm unsure how this new chapter of our friendship will look like, and Iβm trying to let him go, move on with my life, stay busy, and focus on myself rn.
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1 month agoAlthough this friendship will now be platonic, I will always love him. Even though I know I deserved better, I still will always wish he was mine. Deep down, I knew that it may not work out, but I always had hoped that it would in the end.
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1 month agoAnyhow, if yβall read all of this paragraph, thank you for listening to my story, I appreciate yβall so much, thank you all for caring about meβ€οΈ if anyone has any advice for what Iβm going thru, it would be much appreciated. :)
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1 month agoSorry for so many comments, I was copying and pasting haha *image credits to original artist*
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1 month agoOh my goodness! I was scrolling and past this INCREDIBLE artwork and I need to know this backstory, I am so sorry for you and iβm sure he meant no harm π I do not have much advice since I have gone through some only similar.... what iβm sure was frustrating was he chose to text you and not have the guts to tell you face to face. just know, iβm here for you πππ
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1 month agogone through something similar** Lol I make mistakes when iβm typing
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1 month agoOh gosh, I hope everything is okay for you! Iβve never been in that kind of situation, so I wouldnβt be any help, but I hope everything goes well. Hopefully the future of the relationship and just the future of your life works out, no matter what happens or what direction it takes. And if you ever need to talk I can listen if you want! <3
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1 month agoThat really sucks, if you want my opinion tho try to keep your friendship alive he sounds like a good guy I had something like this happen to me before but we didnβt keep the friendship alive and it makes me a bit sad
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1 month agoOh goddess I hope youβre doing ok! I (sorta) know how youβre feeling. I have a crush on my girl best friend (Iβm also female) and I was going to tell her I liked her today (over FaceTime), but she said she had great news: she has a boyfriend. Of course, I canβt tell her I like her now, it would hurt her and her bf. Iβm still super sad, but Iβll get better. And so will you! Itβll take a while, but youβll move on. I promise, thereβs someone perfect out there for you! Iβm always here to talk. π
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1 month ago@ππππ.ππππππππ Thank you sm! Yeah, we rarely do get to see each other expect every couple of months, but I was rly hurt he did not first tell me audibly, I did confront him about it and told him that I wasnβt going to talk about it unless we talked audibly, thankfully he did get back to me, and we FaceTimed yesterday, and I was able to get some closure from this situation, so Iβm grateful for that. He does still care about me, and although he did hurt me, I know it was not his intention.
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1 month ago@ππππ.ππππππππ also it is okay if you donβt have advice, I appreciate you being there all the same ππ
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1 month ago@βοΈπhalesofbayβ²οΈβοΈ thank you sm! Itβs completely okay haha. Yeah me too, I think one day I will be happy and meet someone new, but in the meantime while I am still healing from this, I know that I need to work on myself before I open my heart up again. Thank you so much for your kind words it means a lot!π
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1 month ago@Dragon_Spirit13 yeahπthank you...thatβs rly good advice! He is a rly good guy, even if he will never be my guy. Although Iβm still sad about this new change, I never want to lose him, and if I will only always be his friend, I will be grateful for whatever I am given. Thankfully we both have agreed that we are still going to maintain the friendship(or at least what will be left of it) so thatβs encouraging, although Im taking a break from talking rn. Thank u for your comment it means so much!π
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1 month ago@π β’~β’ πππ_πππ β’~β’ π thank you sm. Life has definitely been up and down daily, but ik eventually itβll get easier as time goes by. Aw im sorry that that happened to youπ, getting hurt by someone you care about definitely is not easy at all, but one day I bet youβll meet the right person too that will care about you with their whole heart!π thank you sm for your comment it means so much!π
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1 month agoYou are so welcome! If you ever need to talk, Iβm here π and itβs ok, Iβll live. Sheβs my best friend, and I never want to hurt her, and if that means letting go, thatβs what Iβll do. Stay strong π
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1 month agoOfc! Also... big question: Is ur pfp you?
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1 month ago@π β’~β’ πππ_πππ β’~β’ π thank you, same to you as well! Yeah I get it, I donβt want to hurt him either and I want him to be happy, even if itβs not with me. You too!πͺπΌπ
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