Randoperson
8 months ago
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hate me when they find out and it's very likely that i'll get kicked out, yes i have places i can stay but these places are far from home. i don't wanna lose everything i have here but i can't live like this anymore so i'm truly just so scared. so sorry for all that, thanks for reading if you did, im sorry for dumping all of this, just had to get it out there
🌹Miss Cranberry🌹
8 months agoThis is very pretty
I'm so sorry that you are so terrified to come out to your parents, I haven't come out to my own yet so I'm terrified when that day comes
I hope you can be safe and that your parents will accept you
I know I'm just a random pleb on a bloody colouring app of all things on the internet, but just know that life does get better. There are many people that will accept you for who you are, and those that dont arent worth your time or energy
Maybe draw something that comforts you, maybe your favourite animal or character from a TV show <3
Randoperson
8 months ago@🌹Miss Cranberry🌹 thank you so much, that actually makes me feel a little better about it. i'm glad to know that i'm not the only one who gets scared of this. i agree that those who don't except aren't worth the effort but it's just hard. thank you again, and i hope all goes well for you w all this as well. that's a great idea! thank you<3
SPsMOM💙
8 months agoBeautifully done 💜 ~ I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. I would love my child unconditionally. Hopefully your parents will do the same. Remember you have a strong supportive community online. Even if you don’t know them personally.
Linda Coates
8 months agoI am sorry for your troubles maybe your parents will surprise you. If not a school counselor can be of help.
MS Fighter
8 months agoFirst, I hope I’m not out of line since I don’t really know you. I’ve looked back at your art and can see that you are torn. I am a mom of two boys and a grandmom. Is there a reason you think your parents are not going to except you? Is there a possibility your parents already know? Many parents are very intuitive and can sense these things long before being told. I don’t know your parents and what their background is, but I know if either of my boys (or girls if I had them)
MS Fighter
8 months agoWe would have loved them unconditionally, no questions. Is there one parent that you were closer to than the other? Could you possibly try coming out to that parent first? Is there a reason you feel that your parents are going to reject you? You mentioned that your parents are so good, I cannot imagine that they would hate you and kick you out. Could you be judging them too soon? It does sound like your parents 
MS Fighter
8 months agoLove you. Maybe it is time to give them a chance. It is so very hard for parents to throw a child out. I’m sorry I have been so wordy here but I really feel your pain and as a parent I am so on your side. If you feel the need to vent  I would be glad to listen.❤️❤️
Kim G. J.
8 months agoI am so sorry that you feel terrified to tell your parents. Parenting is all about unconditional love, support, and acceptance. I am hoping that your parents feel this way. I’m glad to see you have somewhere you can go if things don’t turn out. I’m sure you have a lot of people in your corner, even on a coloring app.
Randoperson
8 months ago@SPsMOM💙 thank you💕 you are so right, i don't go online much but even being on this app, i have received so much more support than i ever have. it's kind of amazing to know that there are so many people who will except people as they are
Randoperson
8 months ago@Linda Coares thank you, i really hope so, i have never thought of that, maybe i should talk to mine
Randoperson
8 months ago@MS Fighter totally not out of line, i'm the one who decided to put it out there haha. yes i am messed up a bit but it's not that bad and my only options for help is christian therapy which is kinda terrifying lol. yes they do know, it's one of those situations that if we don't acknowledge it then maybe it'll go away. it's a long explanation and my situation is strange lol so sorry ab this. there have been many times in the past where they found out in one way or another and that always lead to
Randoperson
8 months ago@MS Fighter a conversation, those always ended with them basically trying to convince me it's not true and that the devil is controlling my mind. my mom is a lot more opinionated ab it than my dad but they both very openly hold the stron belief that anything other than straight, cis, and christian is wrong. my parents have taken my phone and blocked friends simply because they believe something different. ik that they will most likely not be ok with it because they have many time told that they
Dhuniya ✨🧿💙💜•NUNi•💜💙🧿✨
8 months ago@Randoperson Wish you all the strength, luck and love in life 🍀💖
Randoperson
8 months ago@SPsMOM💙 aren't, both during those conversations that i mentioned and outside of them. it's possible that they could've changed their mind since i am older now ( i'm recently an "adult") but the chances are slim. they do love me and i know they only want what's best, unfortunately what they think is best is locking me up any time i mention the subject. i really appreciate your concern and everything, thank you for caring it really means a lot❤️
Randoperson
8 months ago@Kim G. J. i agree and i think that they really do try to do their best and i understand that it's just what they believe but in the end that just pushes a kid away. i am really lucky to have a place so i am grateful. i really do have some good people, thank you
Randoperson
8 months ago@✨🧿💙💜💙• NUNi •💙💜💙🧿✨ thank you! i really do appreciate it
PanGreyaceGremlin✨🏳️🌈🐈
8 months agoI’m so sorry you’re scared!!! I was scared to come out too and at first they weren’t awesome but know they are REALLY accepting!!! I hope it turns out like that for you too 😊
Randoperson
8 months ago@PanAceGremlin✨🏳️🌈🐈 thank you, i hope they come around to but i don't wanna get my hopes up, i really appreciate you<3
Peyz33 aka Karen🍃🇺🇸
8 months agoI’m so sorry for your worries but unless your family has been living in a cave for the last 20 years this should not be earth shattering news for them. Parents love their children unconditionally most if the time - and if - as you say “they are so good” why do you think this would change how they feel - I think they will surprise you and be just as loving as they were before you tell them. I remember so many of my friends having the very same concerns and they stressed themselves out for weeks -
Randoperson
8 months ago